When You Are In Love

Have you ever been in love? I believe most of us did. Even if you haven’t, perhaps it will be good to try it out. Some of us want to be in love simply because we have never been in a relationship before. Yet others avoid love after they have past negative experiences. No matter which category you belong to, there is always room for change. Perhaps all you need is just a reason to convince yourself.

So here it goes. People in love experience biological, psychological changes. Neurochemicals in our bodies are accountable for the pleasurable feeling we feel physically. You get those annoying racing heartbeats, sweaty palms, even stutter as you speak. You just wished at times love can just be more straightforward. People fall in and out of love as a normal part of human life.

But it’s just not as simple as it seems. Getting over a broken heart is one of the most tormenting emotional pains. Your body, mind and soul simply disintegrate. You need ample time to heal and get back on your feet again. But only God knows how long every person needs to recover. Furthermore, most people get jitters when it comes to accepting and embracing love again. This is evidently true especially if you have been hurt terribly by the previous attempt.

Here are some pointers you may want to consider:

1) Acknowledge failed relationships.

We are not born to be perfect. There is no harm in acknowledging your failures. As humans, we make mistakes and misjudge others. Do not let hard facts defeat you. Admitting you are out of love is not the end of the world. Make full use of your singlehood to recharge and recover. Prepare yourself for the next potential person that comes along.

2) Face the facts and move on, no matter how difficult it may be.
You shed tears almost every night thinking no one in this world understands how you broken-hearted you feel. Think again. It doesn’t pay to waste your precious emotions over someone who is not worth the effort. Reserve your very best for the special person in your life. Most of us probably ponder when that may happen. Fact remains unknown. The destiny of love remains a mystery for those who are willing to give themselves a chance in exploring it.

3) Believe in love again.

Believe in love again. This is the best thing you can do. Believe in yourself that you can find love again. This requires utmost conviction from yourself and your partner. Remember true love comprises of faith, trust and companionship.

Incredible it may sound, there is always a special person waiting for you. Even if that means he or she is at the other end of the earth. But so long as the person exists, there is always hope that eventually two of you will end up with each other. Now isn’t this very comforting to hear? When you are in love, nothing is impossible. So stay in love.